Ever since we were children, we were taught that the outside beauty is not as important as the beauty in our hearts and souls. So we must not put too much attention in physical beauty because as time goes by, it will fade, but the beauty of one’s soul will not. However, as we grow up, we see how much society put so much importance into physical beauty. We see celebrities and famous personalities become successful because they are beautiful and attractive. We see how pretty people get the attention of everyone just by the simple reason that they are nice to look at.
From there, we began to put pressure in ourselves to look good—sometimes too good. There is also the factor of other loved ones wanting us to look attractive, or else it’s just embarrassing.
That was the exact situation of Huyen from Ho Chi Minh, Vietnam. The 28-year-old single mother narrated how much ridicule she gets because she isn’t as pretty as the other girls around her. Originally, she had tanned skin and single eyelids—characteristics that are deemed not attractive in her society.
Because she was not conventionally pretty, her boyfriend’s family did not allow her to marry their son! Even if the case was that they already have a child. Hurt and alone, Huyen vowed to work hard and turn her life around. The words she heard from her boyfriend and his family were enough to fuel her drive to pick herself up and find a better way to live.
Huyen took multiple jobs to sustain her life with her baby. While she toiled hard, her mother took care of her child. With the extra money she saved, she went through various cosmetic surgeries to improve her look. Never again she would be called ugly, not if she can help it.
“Since I wasn’t in the best financial situation, I had to start working without much rest after the surgeries. On the third day after my breast augmentation procedure, I had to endure the pain and go to work. That was the most painful time in my life.”
Today, Huyen has successfully fit herself into the standard of beauty imposed by the people around her. Her confidence has been restored, and she no longer looks down on herself like before.
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